Celebrate Large, Marry Small

Skip the big wedding, but have a large engagement party. Think about it. You save money and a whole lot of planning by not having to go through the formalities.




No bridesmaid's dresses, shoes, hair and makeup expense. No groomsmen tuxes and gifts. No boutonnieres, bridesmaid's flowers, ring bearer or flower girl expenses either, just to name a few.





It's like having your reception before the wedding but without the fuss. Do: hire a caterer; have an excellent photographer; and bring in the band. Pass the champagne and let the laughter and merriment continue into the wee hours.





Skip the big hall rental and have it at a friends home; or rent the hall if you have a large crowd. Either way, you save. Most venues have different rates for parties vs. receptions.





Play with gorgeous linens, and beautiful flower centerpieces for the tables. You can splurge now that you don't have to decorate the church!





Have a theme. You can still do the Tiffany look, or princess, or mardi gras.





Have your photographer work double-time. The engagement party can be a perfect time to do engagement photos, and capture the moments from the engagement party...or not. You have the choice!! :)





Use e-invites or a free wedding website to allow guests to RSVP and tell them about your uber cool event.





You CAN invite that co-worker that would have been put on the maybe list with all the money you're saving!!





When you're wedding day comes all you'll need is your parents and very close amigos. You can still get dressed in your dream gown, and carry a beautiful bouquet. Hire the photographer for the photos, and after, go out to dinner at your favorite restaurant. Or hire that caterer that did your engagement party to do a private meal for you and your "wedding party" at your home. (Having trouble hiring a caterer? Choose Fresh from the Kitchen LLC for your next event!!)





However, you decide to do your wedding, remember there are no boundaries. You don't have to settle for the "norm." Have fun and make the day about whom it should be about--you and your fiance.